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Darren Gold
Jan 4, 2021
How to Flourish in the Year Ahead
The central question for 2021 (and for any year) is: How do I flourish in a world where much, if not most, of what happens is beyond my...
Darren Gold
Dec 21, 2020
Lessons from a Simple Act of Integrity
Integrity is about your word. All you are is your word. And your effectiveness in life is a function of the degree to which you honor...
Darren Gold
Dec 14, 2020
The Importance of Getting Your Hands Dirty
There is something primordial about physical labor. We spend so much of our time in the modern world distracted by the busyness of life....
Darren Gold
Dec 7, 2020
A Return to Simplicity
There is little that you can do to affect the uncertainty and complexity of your environment. But you have almost complete control over...
Darren Gold
Nov 30, 2020
Suffering Is Optional
Pain is inevitable, yet suffering is optional. This is a relatively radical notion. Radical because it places the responsibility for your...
Darren Gold
Nov 23, 2020
Gratitude Starts with You
One cannot truly be grateful until he can be grateful for himself. True joy comes from deep and consistent self-gratitude. For as long as...
Darren Gold
Nov 16, 2020
A: The Secret to a Successful Life | Q: What Is Show Up?
In a world that seems to be unraveling at times, here’s my simple advice. Show up. This month, we lost another legend – Alex Trebek, the...
Darren Gold
Nov 9, 2020
Citizen, Heal Thyself
A country cannot heal unless the individuals of that nation heal themselves. We cannot expect this country to come together if each one...
Darren Gold
Nov 3, 2020
Ancient Wisdom: A Guide to Post-election Stress
You are likely to be angry, frustrated, and sad this week and over the coming months. You can allow yourself to be at the effect of your...
Darren Gold
Oct 26, 2020
Lessons from a Year of Writing
This is my 50th consecutive weekly post. When I started in November of last year, I decided to write something weekly with no clear sense...
Darren Gold
Oct 19, 2020
The Responsibility Dilemma
When we allow our environment to become the primary source of our attention and frustration, we give up our power. When we externalize...
Darren Gold
Oct 13, 2020
A Pandemic of Negativity
What you are thinking and speaking has the power to be viral. It can spread and affect others in ways that are harmful or helpful. Each and
Darren Gold
Oct 5, 2020
Focus on Your Other Hand
Times of misfortune require us to ask different questions. What is the one thing you can do right now that wouldn’t even have occurred to...
Darren Gold
Sep 28, 2020
A Time for Collective Prayer
Our disproportionate focus on things outside of our control is the source of our suffering. And, paradoxically, our ineffectiveness. Just...
Darren Gold
Sep 21, 2020
The Paradox of Greatness
Ruth Bader Ginsburg’s simple declaration to do something to make society a little better produced profound change that made the lives of...
Darren Gold
Sep 14, 2020
Transforming Misfortune into Possibility
How one answers this question – what to do when crisis or misfortune strikes – is what separates extraordinary individuals from the...
Darren Gold
Sep 7, 2020
The Dichotomy of Labor
The truth is that virtually all of us work because we no longer know how to just be. As wonderful as the American work ethic is,...
Darren Gold
Aug 31, 2020
Lessons in Maturity from a Twenty-Five-Year-Old Golfer
Today, there is much to fix and change in our environment. Yet, it would be a tragic mistake to focus on fixing the environment without...
Darren Gold
Aug 24, 2020
Are You a Wildflower?
Wildflowers are the people who consistently act out of a belief that they shape their circumstances, not the other way around. This...
Darren Gold
Aug 17, 2020
Gratitude is the Sweetest Fruit
Gratitude may be the single most important antidote to fear and uncertainty. When things are rough, reminding yourself of how much there...
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